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working on the spark..

i've been in a relationship for exactly 15 months today.. ;)

i must say.. it wasn't easy..

but everyday spending it with him is all worth it.. 

we may say that the start is very easy, full of nothing but pure fun and happiness..

and as time goes by.. hardships come and go and all you could do is surpass them all, be stronger and grow..

but that does not mean that the relationship would be less filled with love..

the important thing is you know how to listen, forgive and compromise..

and of course, constantly work on the spark..

do random stuffs together.. 

always spend quality time when you are together..

but also have some alone time, apart..

hug and cuddle.. 

have fun..

do something silly.. 

support each other..

respect each other.. 

travel.. 

surprise him/her..

do something sweet..

 appreciate and try out each others interests..

help each other..

be each other's best friends..


(photos above are all from weheartit.com)

i love you baby..

two people..

all these years.. ive been tryin my best to deeply understand LOVE..

what and how it's supposed to be..

after all the things that ive been through, ive come to realize that there's so much that you can do, there's so much that you have to sacrifice.. and that there are things that you must change.. not just for the relationship, but for yourself as well.. 

still, there are things which haven't changed that i knew about love..

 it is having to be considerate and sensitive..

 it is a give and take relationship.. and most importantly.. 

it is about TWO PEOPLE..

(never a one-voice-heard relationship)

loving each other unconditionally, kissing and hugging, making each other happy, appreciating everything..what both can give, accepting each other's fault, being there for each other, trying to do whatever they can to sustain the love, relieving all the good and happy moments each day, listening, taking in consideration and respecting what they both feel. 

remember.. you are in a relationship to be happy, to smile, to laugh and to make good memories. not to constantly be upset, to feel hurt and to cry.

(all photos are from weheartit.com)

just another random grocery day..

okay.. so i actually do not have any grocery photos.. (considering the title?! lol)

all i have are just random photos of me and my bf taken today.. which by the way now happens seldom.. sad, i know.. that is why i am really glad that we came up with at least good pictures..

me, enjoying our large cup of Yoh-Froz yogurt w/ our fave top ins (almond slices,NY cheesecake,banana)

my bf tryna be goofy.. or iunno

Frenchbaker's lasagna and their refreshin water with lemon and orange slices, and mint 

just me ;)

essentials..

first of all, sorry for the lame photography.. used low res cam.. tahaa

Witchery leather bag

 i super love my new bag from my tita nida. aside from the good quality and material, it is enough to carry around my daily essentials. plus the studded design which would make any look more edgy.

100% leather

pens, Union Jack medicine pouch, Buxton leather coin purse (mom's)

Pens (just in case) haha Medicines (vitamins, for cough,colds or even flu) Coin purse (really of big help especially when your'e out)

Estee Lauder make up case, kabuki brush, Careline blush on's (two tones of pink), Sansan concealer stick, perfume, eyebrow brush, Elizabeth Arden eyebrow pencil, mascara (Maybelline and Clinique)

Blush on's are essential to avoid looking pale. Choose a more blushing tone for your skin. Concealer in case of pimple breakout or just to hide other flaws like eye bags. Small spray bottle of perfume (easier to stash in your bag). Eyebrow tools to enhance your look. Mascara for more poppy eyes.

printed abaca pouch, red lipsticks, Blistex lip balm, Everbilena liquid eyeliner

Lip balm to avoid cracked lips. It will give your lips more moisture. Red lipsticks. I always opt to use red lipsticks but I don't put on too much. Just a hint of redness will do to avoid paleness. Liquid eyeliner in case of really made up look.

Steve's Bench wax/clay, powder, soap, shampoo, brush, floss and toothpaste

i must say, my bf is also vain so I always bring his wax/clay.

Powder to avoid skin's oiliness. soap,shampoo and brushing kit in case of emergency ;)

comb, brush, ELF mechanical lash curler

combing or brushing your hair is essential,esp for us girls.. we wouldn't want to see tangled hair right?
curling lashes will make our eyes pop, it actually may also be a way to ditch the eyeliner.. (more natural)

this post was actually rushed, so pls be nice tahaa will try to update it soon

what to do when BORED

first of all..

lol ;D

sleep

watch a movie (in a movie house or just at home tahaa)

visit your networking sites

make a blog

learn how to cook or at least try doing some of your fave desserts

make a collage

try eating new foods

visit an art exhibit

ice skate

swim

go out of town

visit an orphanage

clean up your computer (get rid of unnecessary files)

paint your room

reorganize your stuff

wash your car

redecorate your room

experience fiestas of different provinces

learn a new sport

play any indoor games (boggle, monopoly, etc)

do some favors

run errands

do your home or office works ,if you have any

take new interesting photos

write a story

take an interesting class (dance,music,etc)

take care of a pet

sell something

visit the spa

diy facials

get a new haircut, color or any other treatment

raid your closet

sort stuffs which you do not use anymore

take care of ur sib,nephew or niece

will update for more.. tahaa

my baby's birthday

since we both love wearing flip flops.. iv'e decided to give him a new pair, i was actually planning on giving him havs but since they do not have plain black for men.. i chose to buy DC brand of flip flops.. hope he'd like it. ;)

my sister could not think of any gift ideas since we were at sm for the last minute, take note.. at the grocery, so i told her steve loves chocolates.. ;) how sweet of my sister to give her this huge chocolate as a gift

mama's gift.. it is actually this small nail cutter with all the other small tools/trinkets.. i dunno.. haha it will be useful to avoid those nail biting moments for him lol ;D

so today.. i greet my boyfriend.. STEVENSON CINCO ONG.. a HAPPY BIRTHDAY! God bless you baby.. God knows and my family knows how much i love you, wishing more birthdays of you to come.. i hope you would be stronger, as well as our relationship.. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH BABY. thank you for everything, especially for taking care and loving me.. mhuah mhuah uhmhuah cuddletight* hoping God would give you a more patient, forgiving and loving heart ;)

how to's (Relationships 101)

how to make your girl happy..

1. being honest. (but always tell hurtful truths in a nice way)
2. knowing not to discourage, discriminate or let her down.
3. not just saying sweet little things, but doing little sweet things as well. (we love surprises)
4. listening to her when she has some things to say. absorbing those things and trying to respond as much as you can. (it is a sign of respect)
5. showing a little interest on her interests.
6.  watching chick flicks with her.
7. telling her how beautiful she is. (never tell her when she is not)
8. not being late
9. when she says stop, stop.
10. knowing what, when and where to do and not to do things. (we are not your reminder notebook to tell you things)
11. returning her calls and texts.
12. defending her.
13. making her feel special.
14. not just making her laugh, but making her happy.
15. not taking her for granted
16. not being ashamed to compliment her or show her affection in front of others.
17. being a gentleman. being respectful.
18. being patient. being reasonable.
19. looking after your appearance and hygiene
20. introducing her to your family and friends.
21. learning to compromise.
22. writing her a love note.
23. trusting her.
24. no to cheating.
25. never look at other women. it is a sign of disrespect.
26. not taking advantage of her kindness.

 

how to make your guy happy..

1. trusting him. and i mean really letting him feel that you trust him.
2. complimenting him
3. not nagging him. knowing when to back off
4. not being clingy and needy
5. cut the drama or any spark which leads to drama
6. hugging him. kissing him.
7. being honest
8. never compare him to others
9. cooking delightful dishes for him
10. giving him something really useful (shoes, clothes, something for his car, etc)
11. doing something he loves to do
12. watching kick ass action movies
13. not being late
14. being patient
15. getting along well with his family and friends. (but not too much)
16. no to cheating
17. be sexy. ONLY TO HIM
18. supporting him
19. When saying "good bye", make sure you kiss him, hug him, and whisper in his ear that you love him
20. occasionally making the first moves
21. giving him guy time
22. looking after your appearance and hygiene
23. being spontaneous
24. being practical and realistic
25. being yourself
26. mixing up your routine and maintaining some mystery

be happy

they say there are two things to define our success in life:

a) the way we manage when we have nothing and b) the way we behave when we have everything.

ok.. for the passed few months i can not help but notice negative posts. and to be honest, i may have shared a few ones over the net which made me feel really guilty of how i behaved. i mean, how come people, (well.. including me) can not stop ranting even over the smallest things. while what we really should be doing is pray and be thankful for everything that God has given us. days of living, food, shelter, our family and the people around us, for everything that has been happening, our whole being. our whole existence. 

the happy pill

ways to be happy..

1. the first key to happiness is ACCEPTANCE. one must ACCEPT that LIFE is NOT PERFECT, and so as all the other things that comes with it. (including other people, school stuffs, relationships). Measuring life by what others do may disappoint us , but measuring life by what we do will make life meaningful.

2. love love love. love and appreciate everything, everyone. even the problems you are going through, or your so called enemies or frenemies, lol. remember that EVERYTHING is PURPOSE DRIVEN. and HISTORY is HIS STORY. and that GREATEST LESSONS come out of PAIN. so if ever you had your bad hair day,  you did not get that bag you were wishin for, you had the wrong sized top, you experience humidity or hard rain, be thankful that you still get to experience everything. say, you had your hair treated the other month, the bag was on sale week after, the color of the top really does not fit your complexion or you have been stuck over rain with your loved one. Find every reason to be happy and loving those pissed-off moments instead of wishing the other person you hate would trip off.

3. never depend your happiness on others. it will only make you happy for a certain time but once you experience loss.. you might break down and feel the end of the world. it is YOUR LIFE. make the MOST out of your LIFE. live according to your PURPOSE. for God's pleasure, for God's family, to become like Christ, to serve God and for a mission.

4. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE. be with the people who loves you, and makes you happy. be with those people who will help you grow as a person.

5. learn from your mistakes. but also bear in mind that it is WISER to LEARN FROM OTHERS' MISTAKES. experience is not what happens to you, it is WHAT YOU DO WITH WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU. so if you fall, stand up. nobody can help you except yourself.

6.  ENJOY LIFE'S LITTLE TREATS. that cute sweet flavorful ice cream, rain, fluffy clouds or sun set. why rant over your wants if you can enjoy life's blessings. be happy that there are people who stays with you, being unmindful of how cranky you can be. be happy that you can still enjoy every food served in front of you when other people can not even eat three times a day. be happy that others support you in everything that you do. be happy that there is still a sun rising and giving us everything we need from it instead of grumbling how humid the weather is.

below is a picture of things.. which i think gives a little spark of happiness to people.. ok, maybe, for us girls!

soda, for extra kick of hyperactivity, lol

camera.. not literally a camera, it may also be a picture..

book.. for knowledge, or maybe a good informative site ;)

ipod.. who does not love music?

mobile phone.. do not attempt to argue with me on this one! tahaa

cookies, or any desserts..

nail polish? haha of course, particularly for girls.. haha

coffee or any chilled/frozen drinks